When we have those big decisions - or what we feel like are big decisions - come at us, oftentimes we have this fear that pops up that says, "Oh, if I make this decision, I'm going to be stuck with it for forever.”
Hi everyone! It's Sarah Emond with Essence Healing.
In today's Spirit Talk I want to talk about Changing your Mind.
I’ve run across a lot of people who don't make decisions because they are afraid that they're going to be stuck. I want to point out to everybody that in the majority of cases, your decision is not permanent.
You get to change your mind.
You get to make a new decision if you try something new and you're unhappy with it.
Sometimes you make a decision to start down the pathway and you get three steps down it and go, "Nope! This isn't for me." And you need to make a new decision right away.
Sometimes, you get into it and you love it...and then you hate it. And now you get to make a new decision.
You get to change your mind.
Our life is made up of all this. We do this all the time.
But when we have those big decisions - or what we feel like are big decisions - come at us, oftentimes we have this fear that pops up that says "Oh, if I make this decision I'm going to be stuck with it for forever."
Are you? I mean, really - just honestly: are you?
Are you really gonna be stuck with it forever?
Can you not change your mind later on?
Will there be a transition process when you do change your mind? Yeah. Great - that's life. That's the life we live. That transition process might be small, it might be big. But that doesn't mean you are stuck there forever.
You just have to make the decision that you're changing your mind and you're making a different decision. And you transition into something different.
I'm really bringing this up because I've seen it come up a lot. I'm seeing with energy changes this summer I'm seeing that there's stuff that's coming up where people really need to make decisions. They are going to get to a point where there aren't decisions for them to make.
I urge you, if you're one of those people who are not making a decision please do not make it because you're afraid that you're gonna be stuck. That you won't be able to change your mind.
Step outside of your limits.
Step outside into the unknown and try some of those new things that you are yearning for.
Because that's what the new energy is bringing in. Change.
in a way of NEW.
And you may very well find that as you move into those new changes, even it they're scary, that you are in bliss. That you are the happiest you've ever been.
That's my wish for you. I hope that you're stepping into those and that you're making those decisions with the understanding that "Hey, if I love this, I can stay in this decision. I can keep making this decision again every day. And if I hate this decision, I can change my mind."
If you need more clarity on this or you simply need help understanding what the fear is - if that's keeping you from making a decision. I hope that you will reach out to me so I can lend a helping hand.
In the meantime, I hope you have a great week and that you start making those decisions!
Love!